Masturbation-Such a great technique
I have a girlfriend but whenever we have foreplay and have sex I usually ejaculate early. What could be the problem?
I also have a problem with masturbating too much. Is there a problem with masturbation?
I want to be a better lover?
I want to be a little “nasty"?
Then get your freak on by doing “mutual masturbation" with your girl.
Getting to know your feelings and sensations gives you the chance to gain confidence. Remember getting good at sex and overcoming premature ejaculation can take a bit of time. Practice makes perfect. If you find that things are not improving then help is available from sex therapists who are experts in this field.
The goal is to see how long you can go before you orgasm rather than rushing to finish. Masturbating this way can eventually build up your stamina.
Forget all the myths including, “Masturbation will make hair grow on your palms" or “Touching yourself will make you go blind".
Some men will actually masturbate literally within an hour of getting laid so they look like a stud. Remember guys, any man can have an orgasm but not any man can give one. Building stamina is essential to a women"s sexual interest in you.
As mentioned with stamina, masturbation can also be major stress and tension reliever. It is such a release for the body it is a virtual explosion between your legs. If you are stressed out or having a hard time making a decision about something I highly recommend retreating to a safe venue and punishing your lap for the answer.
During masturbation you have to think about sex or even penetration – you are not thinking about work, bills, and kids. If you are able to “detach" then you should be able to “release" allowing your body to relax and regroup for making that important decision.
Why do people masturbate?
It feels good and is relaxing.
It’s a good way to learn to know your own body. You discover what your vulva or penis looks like, how it changes when you get excited and how your genitals feel and smell.
You can learn what kind of stimulation you need to get excited and be able to climax.
It’s a good preparation for sex. When your lover asks what you like or don’t want it’s not hard to answer.
By masturbating you gather general information about sex, like your climax becoming stronger when you postpone coming or that your sexual preferences may change from one day to the next.
Masturbation is giving oneself sexual pleasure by stimulating the genitals. When you keep going you will probably get more and more excited and may eventually climax. Some people just concentrate on the pleasurable feelings themselves, while others need fantasies to have an orgasm.